
I won’t go into too much detail on how I got into this debt hole. You can read about that in the “My Debt Story” post. This post is meant to explain how I climbed out of that $9000 hole and took my life back. It’s a lengthy post but it will be worth the read. This is my personal journey through the climb so I am not suggesting that everything I’ve done should work for anyone. Everyone’s story is going to be a little different but you will be able to take many of these things and apply them to your debt-tackling strategy.
My Why
Suddenly I found myself with a few objectives; some things
that drove my desire to get serious and get rid of this debt. I wanted to buy a house in the near future
but I had no savings and my credit score was not great. I wanted to be secure
and have an emergency fund so that I could handle life’s setbacks. I also
became concerned with how my debt could affect a potential partner in the
future. That kind of baggage would be a red flag for anyone and I wanted to be
my best self for my future partner. I
also learned the value of owning money instead of money owning me through
reading and learning about money management. I wanted to be in control. Suze
Orman has been one of my most inspiring influences in this attitude toward
money.
Mental Health
I had to get to the root of my spending problem. I did not
seek therapy specifically for my spending issues. I’ve been seeing a therapist
for about four years and as my depression and problems had cycled, the pattern
of irrational spending surfaced. Spending was my coping mechanism. Through
sessions with my individual therapist as well as participating in Dialectical
Behavioral Therapy, I was able to find and learn other productive ways to cope
with my problems. I had “tools” that I could use instead of swiping my cards.
Again, I didn’t go into therapy just to get help with my debt. It was something
I was already doing and was available to me.
Budgeting
Over drafting my bank account was a huge issue. I couldn’t
appropriately allocate my paychecks to my monthly expenses. I was overspending
on some things (including credit card payments) leaving me with not enough
money for other things. A budget is what I needed to help me control my
spending and to help me be aware of where my money was going. It took some time
to find a budgeting system that worked for me. But when I finally did, staying
on track was so easy! I felt like I’d gotten a small little slice of that
freedom that I was working towards because I felt more in control. A wonderful
colleague I worked with at a previous job was the one who set it up for me. I
have created a free download of this spreadsheet that I named “The Matt Budget”
after the man who was the most help in my debt journey. His model is the basis
for this budget spreadsheet system. You can find the spreadsheet and an
explanation of my money management practices in my previous post.
Go Without/Cut Down
Once I had established a budget, it was easier for me to find
areas that I needed to cut down on spending. This meant sacrificing some things
that I loved. It was hard and took a great amount of discipline but every bit
of it paid off. There were months that were harder than others and my social
life definitely did suffer as a result. But there are other ways to connect
with your friends without having to spend lots of money. Here are a few things
I did to trim down my spending:
- Switched from organic to conventional groceries (I wasn’t happy about this change but it was necessary to trim down my grocery budget. Look for my coming post on how I lived off of $40 a week for groceries.)
- No alcohol – no going out to bars or buying booze/wine
- No going out to eat
- Canceled my gym membership (I would not recommend this if you don’t have means to workout at home.)
- No shopping (This is how I got into trouble in the first place. $9000 worth of stuff means I clearly wouldn’t need anything anytime soon.)
Surveys
I started taking surveys to earn money or Amazon credit, which I used to buy household items. It wasn’t a ton of money but every little bit helped me save money on household items or pay down my debt. The three websites I used the most were Opinion Outpost, Focus Forward, and UserTesting. I got invited to participate in a few studies and focus groups, which earned me extra rewards.
I started taking surveys to earn money or Amazon credit, which I used to buy household items. It wasn’t a ton of money but every little bit helped me save money on household items or pay down my debt. The three websites I used the most were Opinion Outpost, Focus Forward, and UserTesting. I got invited to participate in a few studies and focus groups, which earned me extra rewards.
Move Home
I was fortunate enough to have parents who were willing to
take me back in without charging me rent. Roommates weren’t an option I would
consider for myself. I know I could have saved so much money and not have had
to move back home with my parents but my privacy and peace of mind will always
be priority for me. That’s just my personal preference. The point of this
change was to live as cheaply as possible. For me, living at home rent-free won
over paying rent and sharing a small living space with a roommate.
Consolidate
I wish I had done this sooner! I applied for a credit card
at my credit union so that I could transfer my entire debt balance to them. My
credit union, Wings Financial, was fantastic and took on all my debt with an
8.9% interest rate. That was less than half
the interest rate on my lowest rate card! I was able to make a single payment
instead of multiple payments, saved so much money in interest, and could pay
down my debt quicker. I was worried the credit inquiry would hurt my already
low credit score but instead, my score went up quite a bit. This is because my
overall line of credit (across all accounts) increased when Wings approved the
balance transfer and therefore my credit utilization decreased. I cut up all my
credit cards except for one with a $2500 limit on it. That one was to be used
in the event of an emergency since I did not have an emergency fund. Once I
paid everything off, I cut this card up, too.
Student Loan
Forbearance
Coming from a background in financial aid, I would NEVER
recommend this to anyone. The only reason I made the decision to do it is
because I am a state employee and can take advantage of the Public Service Loan
Forgiveness Plan, assuming I stay with the state for 10 years. I also had only
made about two payments under the PSLF before applying for forbearance. Had I been
a few years into making payments, I would not have done the forbearance. This
is because I would have to restart my 120 payments after the forbearance ended.
Also, I only requested the forbearance for one year even though they would have
granted up to three years. You have the option of paying the interest during
this time period but I opted not to since my forbearance period was going to be
so short.
Tax Returns
When I filed my taxes and got my return in 2015, I applied
the entire balance to my credit card debt. I did contemplate stashing half of
it in an emergency fund but I was too eager to get rid of this debt.
Monitoring Tools
In addition to my spreadsheet, two helpful tools I used
during these ten months (and still use today) helped me monitor my credit score
and overall financial situation. Credit Karma is a free service that allows you
to monitor your credit score and report. It was so motivating to see that
number climb as I tackled this debt and I was so surprised that it increased so
quickly. I’ve always heard that it can take years to repair damage done to your
credit but going from a 611 to a 750 in less than a year seemed pretty quick to
me! (I don’t have any delinquent accounts or bankruptcies on my record nor have
I ever made a late payment.) I used Mint to monitor all my accounts in one
place. Mint is also a free service and now has credit score monitoring but it
isn’t updated as frequently so that’s why I still used Credit Karma. Anyway,
the graphs in Mint are GREAT visuals. I really enjoy using the net worth bar
graph. That was my favorite while paying down my debt because I could actually
see my debt declining and my net worth increasing at the same time. The net
income bar graph kept me focused because in the past, I’d spend more than I
earned. I wanted to see that string of months in green continue, so it helped
me be conservative in spending.
In doing all these things, I was able to put about $1000 a
month toward my debt. I made my last chunk payment in mid-October. Every
struggle to cut down spending and pay this debt off has been 100% worth it.
Every outing I had to miss out on, every invitation I had to turn down, all the
judgment (“You’re no fun.” or “How come you aren’t drinking?”), and all the
other struggles were beyond worth the feeling of freedom after making my final
payment. I stopped caring about what other people thought of me (their opinions
don’t pay my bills), I learned discipline, I gained more independence, and I
gained more control over my life.
I have cut up all my credit cards (including the previously mentioned card) except for my Wings card
since it has the lowest interest rate and I will need something for any major
setbacks until I get my emergency fund established.
I still have my car loan and student loans that I am paying
on, but the payments and interest rates are manageable. Now that my credit card
debt is gone, I am so much more in control of how I handle these debts, which
many consider to be “good” debt. To me, no debt is good debt but I have a solid
plan for paying these off and preparing for the future so that I don’t bury
myself in “bad debt” again.

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